I wear the color of ♥️♥️ every day! Many shades of it. Of a daughter, sister, mother, aunt but the deepest is of a wife. The love I got from my husband in our total 4 yrs together of which 2yrs 10 months of our marriage still powers me on to live my life to the fullest!
❤️🧲On this Valentine’s advice for single men🧲❤️
Are you in love with the IDEA of love or the REAL love and life together?
It’s good idea to believe in love and that it lasts a lifetime!
Know that bubble gum love doesn’t last. Singing songs, giving useless gifts can’t get you far.
Once that is clear. Keep aside lust. She will be yours if you do the right things.
1. First be a good friend.
2. Give time to build trust.
3. Make her feel safe and secure.
4. Don’t talk dirty instantly.
5. You BE everything first then expect it from her.
6. Show you care by waiting to eat and enjoy a bite together.
7. Honesty is the best policy. Don’t say things you don’t mean to do.
8. Don’t try to cut her off from her family and friends.
9. Invest in her by doing everything for her.
10. Self importance will create a divide.
11. Laugh together
12. Dress well and appropriately as per time and place. Don’t be a fox 🦊 in sheep 🐑 skin. You can’t groom up like a monk for sure!
13. Don’t talk bad about the past. Don’t talk about your unsuccessful relationships ALL the time!
By doing that you are telling you are no good at relationships. Also it says you are stuck in the past.
14. Only fools rush in love. Allow time for growth.
15. Don’t talk down. She will kick you out. No second chances here.
No matter how much advice you get. The real person you are will show up in the relationship. So superficial changes are not going to work.
Love is all about endurance. Love deeply and it will bloom!
Disclaimer:
*I am not looking for a man even if I wrote this.*
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