The Grind

For a while I had stopped reading the RamCharitManas. Resumed it now. 

Even Bhagwan Ram could not escape the grind in life. His life was never smooth. He survived 14 yrs of Vanvaas and the abduction of his wife Seeta. Fought Ravan and killed him and established victory. 

When he became the crowned King, the dhobi questioned the purity of Seeta. Seeta mai went into the womb of Mother Earth. Ram seemingly had started a happy successful phase but had to suffer the loss of Seeta. Unlike Shankar bhagwan he did not do the Tandav. But simply bore the pain in his heart and continued to rule the kingdom. 

If this is the story of these extraordinary beings then how can we humans escape the grind?!